the meaning of circles

A degree of pleasantness, or let's say "acting", is necessary when engaging with people. The best way to contribute to a social situation, which in itself is already a tense one for all involved, is not to pursue those individual opinions and keepsakes that one may think are so rightly his, that define and contour him as a person, so much as it is about facilitating, or "easing" conversation by sticking to a predictable norm that allows the listeners to relax and feel familiar in their surroundings. People like comfort. Therefore using terminology, body language, and speech that is familiar to your subgroup is the easiest way to ease yourself in, and to ultimately "belong".

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